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"THE" Proposal

salam...awal2 pagi ni dapat pulak ilham nak tulis sesuatu..

topik kali ni:: "THE" Proposal
bukan proposal project multimillion RM tapi marriage proposal
msti ad y teringat psl romantic comedy The Proposal lakonan hebat Sandra Bullock dan Ryan Reynolds...the plot is awesome, never ending comedy, and the happily ever after ending...
but i dont want to talk about that right now...
Melamar(Proposal) is a process to take a relationship to next level >> Marriage
usually kat Malaysia mostly org Melayu dan terikat dgn adat ketimuran...
mule2 individually propose someone
then bring along family to meet their "besan"-to-be when ready....



sekarang ni org melamar mcm2 cara....creative, inovatif, dan publicly..haha..
proposing someone bukannye senang...bnyak bende kene pikir sblom tu

sebagai lelaki..
  1. minta restu & kahwin dgn family calon dulu
  2. mentally and physically prepared
  3. MONEY $$$$$....
untuk prempuan kat luar sane tu,,klu ad lelaki/bf/"teman" ajak kawen,
he really mean it may be bukan untuk mase y terdekat tapi untuk masa akn datang,,
men take time to get fully ready..
jangan sesekali bagi tekanan sbb masanye akn sampai jugak.Im saying this sbb ad perempuan y cenggini lebih2 lagi y couple sebaya...in this kind of relationship, girls tend to give pressure to guys when talking about marriage.
mungkin bagi si perempuan bende2 ni kecik je tapi bagi lelaki tidak sama skali...

so follow the flow la, it's easier...

this is just my opinion..tapi klu lelaki dah mmg betol2 ready why not troskan next step hantar family merisik,meminang, then bertunang skali gus jalan....=D

so klu ad y terasa, tersentuh hati ke, terguris sana sini..leave a comment okeyh...
buhbye...

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